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Ann Richardson's avatar

Stimulating post. I knew about Lee Miller before seeing the film, but it told me much more, of course. Both my daughter and her son (18) loved it and I think for them, the real interest was seeing WWII and especially the concentration camps brought to life so vividly. Almost all people of my generation (I am 82) will have seen the horrible pictures from the camps at some point in their lives, but perhaps this is less so for younger people.

But what interests me more in your post is the issue of women wanting to be their own person with a creative life and wanting close relationships – and, for many, including me, children..This is a problem for women (indeed, all couples) in all sorts of situations. We all struggle with it and we always will. Sometimes I think creative people see it as particularly important in their case, but it is equally true for the many women who find fulfilment in other sorts of jobs. If "grief is the price we pay for love", then that conflict is the price we pay for a rich and fulfilling life. And often it is the children who suffer.

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Patricia Henley's avatar

Thanks for your post about Lee Miller. I hadn’t heard about the novel and look forward to reading it. About the film: I enjoyed the opening because the languid, sun-drenched exhibitionism and sensuality contrasted so greatly with the later scenes of deprivation and danger and discomfort during wartime. It contained a very basic structure of story-telling: the reversal. We need more stories like this of women who have a mission and passion that cast aside societal expectations. In some small way I felt that when I was researching my first novel in Guatemala during the civil war. I was obsessed with it. I haven’t felt such passion for my subject matter since then. I didn’t choose that path; it chose me. For six years I traveled back and forth to Central America to do the research and I never felt more alive. I am so grateful for the movie “Lee” because it rekindled that feeling in me and made feel a part of something larger than myself.

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