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Jan Masterson's avatar

Don't want to discourage anyone... I am closer to 80 than 79. I am familiar with both deep and deeper. I call it my black pit. The good news: I have learned to like and accept me as I am faults, failures, idiosyncracies, and excentricities; the successes and triumphs too.

I still fall into the pit, just not as often and don't stay as long. I always come out stronger with new insight into the woman I am becoming. My hard-earned advice: as we say in Texas, "Keep on keepin' on."

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Cheah Wenqi's avatar

Thank you for sharing your experience, I've also been going through something similar.

Living life on your own terms means you're often faced with uncertainties, and though that can be exciting and hopeful, it can also be very destabilising. It forces us to confront our deeply rooted fears and self-limiting beliefs.

I too, am fighting to rise above the heaviness of my anxiety and while I still flip flop between good and bad days, grounding activities have been helpful for me. I force myself to get out of bed for a cup of hot tea, I search up recipes that require long cooking times so I can work through my bubbling frustrations as I chop and stew. Anything that can help me slow down and pull me back into the present.

Sending good thoughts and glad to hear you're feeling better!

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