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Dec 20, 2023Liked by Anne Boyd Rioux

Living alone allows one to clean (or not) at will. Mostly, I do what I do for two reasons: I can't stand looking at the dust anymore; someone's coming to visit. I have few visitors so am glad to have the impetus to get moving. Otherwise, I do just what I want and answer to no one for what I do or do not do.Sweet bliss.

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Wow! This letter resonates with me so much, as today I've had the longest day at my desk in what feels like days, and days, and days . . . due to holiday responsibilities. As you described your weariness, my heaviness weighed upon me, built up through years and years and years and years! In addition to the mid-life transition (which I noted on the survey), I'm excited to read more about women writers and also your tips for writers. Thank you for sharing so honestly, Anne!

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Dec 21, 2023·edited Dec 21, 2023Liked by Anne Boyd Rioux

I would have selected all the categories in the poll! Very interested in all those topics.

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Dec 21, 2023Liked by Anne Boyd Rioux

I, too, would have selected all the categories in the poll. I'll read whatever you choose to write. I am thinking how odd it is... I've never met you in person, and likely never will, but I am always so interested in what you have to say, what next adventure you are on, your reflections and musings - all of it. I believe it shows how writing connects people and revealing our true selves is a bridge to friendship even across time and space. I suspect your readers see a little of themselves in you. I know I do. Thank you for your letters!

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Dec 21, 2023Liked by Anne Boyd Rioux

Two more things on cleaning:

I do put things away as I use them, and I clean things as I see what needs it.

And I clean before I go on a trip, because I like to be welcomed by an orderly house.

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I found your newsletter at exactly the right time. Thank you!

As a Thanksgiving present to myself this year I sent my husband and kids to his parents’ house four days before I joined them. I stayed at home for my own writing retreat - no cooking!

Last night I had dinner with an old friend who feels it’s important to her, but not to her husband, that she cook tasty, novel meals. She shared that “it’s been a real luxury being married to someone who grew up on frozen pizza and bag salad.” I sent up a silent cheer for her MIL.

I recently stopped in Paris as an add on to a work trip to Zürich. I visited the American Library there. Love at first perusal. I will never miss another chance to visit similar libraries in other cities. Fun to see what they had on display, clean and free bathroom, cheap coffee. 😊

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Feb 23Liked by Anne Boyd Rioux

I want to have my own home too. But with the rise of property prices abnormally I don't know if it's possible or not

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