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Stephanie Bax's avatar

I believe human beings are communal creatures. We are not meant to live out our lives is complete solitude and that true happiness comes in giving and loving others. That said, it’s more important then ever for each of us to have periods of solitude to find the stillness and quiet to connect with ourselves, hear our own heartbeat, touch our souls and find our own unique hum. Without it, our connections with others cannot be authentic and fulfilling. In the words of Emerson, “It is easy in the world to live after the world’s opinion, it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowds keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude”

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Susanne M. Carmack's avatar

I loved this honest expression of the creative journey. Balance in life and the solitude of creating is hard to achieve, and maybe we don’t even recognize it when we have it, as it requires mindfulness, hard work, and time, sometimes feeling torn between all the moments, which may leave us feeling unsatisfied and unfulfilled. Companionship takes work, time and attention, all of which may seem to diminish creative time. Show me someone who has balanced all of it and feels fulfilled and happy all of the time. She does not exist. It is a lifetime journey and quest. Love yourself first and the rest may follow.

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